Adoption Plan: Step by Step


Considering Adoption For Your Baby in Oklahoma?


Since you have found our webpage, you are likely researching the options that are available to you if you are pregnant and considering adoption or have recently had a baby. Arming yourself with knowledge about your options is the first step in empowering yourself to make an informed and well-thought-out decision regarding your future and the future of your unborn (or newborn) baby. While choosing adoption may be the right option for some, it may be the wrong decision for others.


If you would like to speak confidentially with an adoption professional about your pregnancy options, click here. Read on to learn more about your step-by-step process to choose adoption and making an adoption plan.


Step 1: Choose an Adoption Agency
Choosing an adoption professional to assist you with an adoption plan for your baby is one of the most important decisions for both you and your child. It’s important that your desired adoption agency works in your best interests, builds an adoption plan around your needs, has open communication, and is licensed.


When you choose to work with Adoption Choices of Oklahoma, you can be sure that our agency and adoption specialists meet each of these requirements and more! We are a non-faith based agency welcoming families from all backgrounds. Same sex couples, multi-racial families, transracial, Christian families, non-religious families, military, ALL families are welcome at Adoption Choices and will be treated with equal support and compassion.
choosing adoptive family oklahomaStep 2: Choose the Adoptive Family
At our agency, your adoption professional will help you find an adoptive family that best matches your needs and requirements. You will always be able to choose the family for your child, no matter where you are at in your pregnancy or adoption plan.


While it can be a difficult process, you have many options to help select the right adoptive family for you and your baby’s needs. This may include, but not be limited to the following:


• Religious preferences
• Parents’ ages
• Length of marriage
• If existing children are in the home
• Personality traits of adopted parents or their current children
• Professions
• If one parent will be a stay-at-home parent
• Location of the family’s home
• Extended family
• Living in a multi-cultural community
Step 3: Outline your Hospital Plan
A hospital plan can be a list or a document detailing what you do or do not want during your hospital stay. Creating one before you go into labor helps you mentally prepare for the process. It also allows your adoption professionals and adoptive parents to understand exactly what you want your stay and delivery to look like. Here are some questions to consider when creating it.


• Who do you want to be present during the birth?
• Do you know your state’s wait time for consent for adoption?
• Will you want alone time with your baby post-birth?
• Do you want to take pictures with your baby? With the adoptive family?
• Do you want visitors during your hospital stay?
• Are you going to want to name your baby?
• Are you prepared for emotions post-adoption?


These are hard questions, and it’s important that you don’t get bogged down thinking there is a right or wrong answer to any of them. Adoption will be difficult no matter what you do, so do what you feel is best for you and your child.
adoption Post-Placement contact OklahomaStep 4: Decide on Contact Post-Placement


Adoption is becoming more and more open. With that said, you’re able to determine how much contact you’d like with the adoptive family during your pregnancy and after placement.


There are three different types of relationships you can have with an adoptive family: open adoption, semi-open adoption, and closed adoption. Each comes with its own set of pros and cons but there is no right or wrong answer; you make the best choice for you and your situation.


Some birth mothers choose to only receive pictures and letters once a year. But, if you want, you can have more contact and even in-person visits. The level of contact you will have with your child and the adoptive family is up to you.
Through each step of your adoption journey, Adoption Choices of Oklahoma is here to help. You don’t have to face an unplanned pregnancy alone. Call us toll-free at: 800-898-6028. If you are local to OKC call us at: 405-755-1999. In the Tulsa area? Call us at: 918-447-7777. You can also text us ANY time from ANY where at: 405-310-8790. Our staff is available to help 24/7. We won’t judge you, we won’t pressure you, we will be waiting to discuss your options!

We’re here to help you create an adoption plan for your baby.
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If you are an adoptive parent, please click HERE.


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We have over 20 years of experience assisting birth parents and adoptive families through the adoption process.

If you are pregnant and looking to explore adoption options confidentially in Oklahoma, please enter your name, number, or email. Let us know if you prefer us to call, text, or email you. It is 100% free, and we are available 24/7.

If you are pregnant and looking to explore adoption options confidentially in Oklahoma, please enter your name, number, or email. Let us know if you prefer us to call, text, or email you. It is 100% free, and we are available 24/7.